When I was a senior in high school, I joined a gym for the first time. It was a rough but transcendent year for me. My long term boyfriend and I broke up early in the school year, and I sort of lost myself. To cope, I threw myself into exercise and a restrictive 1,000 calorie per day diet, which included a lot of grapefruits and green apples. It was the only way my 17 year old self knew how to move on in 1990. By the end of the year, I had gotten over my grief and abandoned the crazy diet, but I never stopped exercising, in one way or another.
Up to that point, I had always done some sort of exercise -- running with my dad, Jane Fonda videos (seriously -- leotard and all), and even mini trampoline class. In the fall, I was cheerleading, and the practices were not exactly physically taxing. Difficult in terms of coordination and remembering the cheers (I was actually a pretty crappy cheerleader) but my muscles didn't really feel spent. I remember going home after practice and then going for a 3 mile run in the neighborhood.
I don't remember how I got the idea to join a gym, but I did. I remember feeling like a fish out of water, and thinking how weird it was to be working out inside around a bunch of strangers. I had no idea how to use any of the machines (and nobody offered to help), let alone the free weights. But I fumbled my way through it, and felt good when I left.
It's so different today. If a 17 year old girl walks into a commercial gym, I would hope that she'd be shown the ropes, either by a trainer there or by her accompanying parent. My mom was never really into fitness (save the occasional aerobics class with a friend) and my dad is a lifelong runner who only works out inside (in a gym or otherwise) under duress.
So if you're ready to start working out but have no idea where to start, let me give you a few thoughts on how to get going. For this post, I'm going to focus on working out at home, but I will do a follow up post on starting out at the gym.
Working out at home
Working out at home is a new thing for me this year, and I've really come to like it. I do miss the energy and camaraderie of the gym, but at home I have all the weights to myself, can workout any time of day, and can listen to any music I please.
Here are the pieces of equipment I recommend investing in for beginner home-based workouts:
1. A yoga mat: not a deal breaker if you have carpet, but definitely needed if you have hard floors. Be aware that they come in many different thicknesses and styles, but don't feel you need to buy an $80 mat. Generally the cheaper they are, the thinner and less durable they'll be.
2. Dumbbells: I recommend starting with 5s, 8s, and 10s. I know there have been articles out this year saying that those light weights like the 1s and 3s will give you a good workout with high reps, but if you're looking for real body composition changes--especially if you say you want "toned arms"--I recommend heavier weights. It's pretty rare that I bust out anything lower than 8s for my clients, unless there are special circumstances.
3. Resistance bands: If you follow me on social media, you know about my deep love for the Slingshot hip circle. It's amazingly effective at building hip and glute strength. I also have a few mini bands (this is the pack I have) that I use for warming up, either wrapped around my hands for shoulder warm ups or around my legs for glute warm ups. I also have several long and sturdy bands, which I use for assisted chin ups or for face pulls. I bought a great set from the "Band Man," who runs a site called Resistance Band Training. If you follow him on social media (his YouTube channel is fantastic) you will get a lot of good instruction on how to use the bands.
4. A good plan: If you don't want to work directly with a trainer, you can certainly find resources online, but be picky. There are a bazillion online resources out there, ranging from BeachBody, to P90X, to Jillian Michaels, to DailyBurn, to name a few among the thousands. The one I recommend the most is Girls Gone Strong's Guide to Strength Training. It's a great place to start, especially if you watch the intructional videos. If you don't want to invest in a plan like that and really just want to start with the basics, here are the exercises I recommend:
Putting it together
If you're starting out, here's a basic way to structure your workout: pick a squat variation, a lunge variation, a shoulder exercise, and a core exercise, and perform them circuit style, doing sets of 6-8, for at least three rounds.
1. Goblet squats
2. Bulgarian split squats
3. Shoulder press
4. High plank (20 second hold)
Hopefully this will give you a good place to start on your journey to strength. As always, if you have questions or want more guidance, please ask away! I love getting emails from readers!
Just your average stopwatch-toting suburban mom, looking to make some locals sweat and curse my name.